Baystate Medical Center registered nurse Molly Pulchtopek, 23, will receive the Sharon A. Smith Compassionate Caregiver Award as part of National Nurses Week.
SPRINGFIELD - Sometimes patient care is not just about the body's health.
Baystate Medical Center registered nurse Molly Pulchtopek knows this well. Her 97-year-old patient John J. Polopek, hooked up to heart monitoring equipment in the hospital's MassMutual building in February, was concerned about his wife of 70 years. Also 97, she had been admitted for a stroke and was in the hospital's Daly building.
"We fix broken hearts, but from a medical stand point it was obvious that day he needed more than just the medical part of it," Pulchtopek said.
"He was one of those older gentleman whose life revolved around his wife, and you don't see that often."
So, "that day," which happened to be Valentine's, the 23-year-old Pulchtopek advocated and arranged for her patient to be safely away from cardiac monitoring, and wheel chaired to his wife's room where the two were able to hold hands, despite his wife's impaired condition, share a few words and enjoy a little chocolate ice cream.
And, thanks to the efforts - a little gel to the hair, a shave and a tie fashioned from disposable underpads and decorated with hearts - of personal care technician Maria Tanon, Polopek appeared less the patient and more the romantic spouse with flowers in hand. It was memorable for all involved, especially as it would be the last time, apart from the day he was discharged, that he saw his wife. Bernardine "Bernie" Johnson Polopek died Feb. 23.
John J. Polopek and Bernardine "Bernie" Johnson Polopek on their 70th wedding anniversary in August.SUBMITTTED
"He was not feeling good, but he had an extra sparkle in his eye," said Pulchtopek of how her patient was upon his return to M7. "He got into bed, closed his eyes, sighed and said, 'What a day.' That sentence was a thank you because I knew he had a good day in the hospital and that is why we do what we do."
Pulchtopek, who graduated last year from the nursing program at Elms College, in Chicopee, and is part of Baystate's Nurse Residency Program (pdf), is being honored for her patient advocacy that day with the Sharon A. Smith Compassionate Caregiver Award.
The Baystate nursing award is given annually during National Nurses Week, and will be presented at the hospital's Nursing Gala on May 12 from 4:30 to 7 p.m. at its Whitney Avenue Conference Center in Holyoke.
"I was really shocked," said Pulchtopek of her reaction upon learning of the award that she feels is a recognition of her colleagues, too. Her "date" for the gala is Tanon, whom she described as a "huge part of that day."
"Working on M7 incredible things happen every day," Pulchtopek said. "Everyone does heart-warming things, but for us to get the recognition is a great thing."
Baystate Medical Center registered nurse Sean Robinson with his grandfather John Polopek at the Soldiers' Home in Holyoke.SUBMITTTED
A graduate of Ware High School, she added her passion for nursing began at an early age.
"I have always been interested in the medical profession," Pulchtopek said.
"I had family who were in and out of the hospital, and the nurses were kind. It is an inspiring profession. The opportunities are endless, and I enjoy the connection with patients."
She called Polopek an "inspirational" patient from the start for his devotion to his wife.
"The second he told us that his wife was on Daly 5A, it just made sense to bring these two people together who shared 70 plus years," said Pulchtopek of how she and Tanon reacted.
"Even when I was doing his assessment and asked if he had a cough, he said, 'My wife has a cough.'"
Ninety-seven-year-old John Polopek holds a painting remembrance of his special hospital visit with his wife "Bernie" shortly before her death at Baystate Medical Center.SUBMITTTED
Pulchtopek was nominated for the award by Sean Robinson, Polopek's grandson and also a Baystate registered nurse. A graduate of the nursing program at the University of Massachusetts-Amherst, Robinson, 33, just graduated from the three-year nurse anesthetist program at Northeastern University in Boston.
He said his grandfather was admitted with shortness of breath and chest pains to Baystate on Feb. 11, and his grandmother was admitted the next day after suffering a stroke. He said the two met as students at Chicopee High School, raised four children together, including Robinson's mother, Beth Robinson, and celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary in August.
He said his grandfather, now at the Soldiers' Home in Holyoke, served in World War II and had a background in business, and that his grandmother had taught for many years at Benjamin J. Phelps School in Agawam, where they lived.
"They had a great relationship. They were very close and did everything together," said Robinson who visits his grandfather several times a week.
"My grandfather was an avid golfer. They loved watching the Red Sox together, and my nana was an avid reader. I think she kept the Agawam library in business. When they were younger, they liked to travel."
Robinson said the attention that Pulchtopek and Tanon gave his grandfather "made him feel like a celebrity" and that staff clapped as he was wheeled out of the telemetry unit.
"He was extremely excited," said Robinson of his grandfather's eagerness to see his wife after four days of being apart in the hospital.
"He got to hold her hand. It meant a lot to him. My nana was pretty sick. She couldn't do much for herself. I helped feed her. It was the last time he got to see her, except for when he getting discharged and I brought him to see her on the way out. It was something special and something I will never forget for sure."
He added that he nominated Pulchtopek for the nursing award because she "went above and beyond what she needed to do for sure."
"You don't need to be an experienced RN to do something like that," said Robinson, referencing the fact that Pulchtopek is only a year out of nursing school. "It just takes an amazing nurse. She is going to have a great future."