The video was played in the high school auditorium, and some of the guests in attendance wiped tears from their eyes as they watched it.
The Republican | John SuchockiPictured are Ware High School students who took part in the making of a domestic violence video that won a contest sponsored by the Northwestern District Attorney's office. Northwestern District Attorney David E. Sullivan (center) presented a $100 check to junior Samantha C. Simons, left, a member of the school domestic violence task force, who gave it to Monica M. Moran, right, coordinator of the Ware Domestic Violence Task Force.
WARE — With REM's "Everybody Hurts" playing in the background, the students in the video held handmade posters describing the signs of an abuser: wants to pick your friends, is jealous and possessive, puts you down in front of your friends, is violent, brags about mistreating others.
The video, made by the Ware High School Domestic Violence Task Force, was recognized on Wednesday by staff from the Northwestern District Attorney's Office, including District Attorney David E. Sullivan.
The project won a music video contest sponsored by the district attorney's office based on the ideals of the White Ribbon Campaign, which offers men an opportunity to take a stand against violence against women by wearing a white ribbon and taking the pledge: "From this day forward ... I pledge to never commit, condone or remain silent about violence against women and girls including sexual assault and domestic and dating violence."
The video was played in the high school auditorium, and some of the guests in attendance wiped tears from their eyes as they watched it. The students received $100 for winning the contest, money they turned over to Monica M. Moran, coordinator of the Ware Domestic Violence Task Force, to continue to support programs like the one at the high school.
"We knew you were going to win this," Moran said. "It was so well done."
In the video, the students also held posters with suggestions on how to help victims of domestic violence. There were phone numbers for Safe Passage and Womanshelter/Companeras. There was advice: express comfort and support, don't judge, and tell a friend, parent or teacher you trust. It closed with the students saying "We pledge to be part of the solution."
Mary A. Kociela, the district attorney's director of domestic violence projects, spoke of the video's level of sophistication, and how it was done in "such a touching, simple way." She was one of the judges.
"I've had people say, 'I wish this kind of thing was around when I was in school,' " Kociela said.
Moran said she got the same reactions.
"You can change the culture of your generation way more than any of us can," Moran told the students. "I'm 100 percent (certain) that you have prevented domestic violence."
Sullivan called the video "awesome" and said it gets the message across to not be a bystander if one witnesses domestic violence.
Kociela said Granby High School and Franklin County Technical School also submitted videos for the contest. All three videos can be seen on the Northwestern District Attorney’s YouTube page at http://www.youtube.com/user/NWDAMass?feature=mhee.
Math teacher Daniel Orszulak, advisor to the high school domestic violence task force, said this was the first music video that his group has done. Sophomore Heather C. Bouchard said winning the contest "felt good because we put so much effort into making the video."
Junior Matthew E. Crane said he feels his generation needs to be more aware about the problem of domestic violence.
"It's a good honor," Crane said about winning the contest. "It makes you feel good, like you're doing something right."
Junior Samantha C. Simons said they had staff and students, both male and female, take the white ribbon pledge. The video was shown to the entire school.
"A lot of people seemed to like it," Simons said.
Betty Guetti, another judge who is a domestic violence survivor, police trainer and speaker on the subject, said in a statement, “It’s great to have these young people show that they feel domestic and dating violence is wrong. It gives me hope for the future.”
The White Ribbon Campaign is an international event established in 1989 after a gunman opened fire and killed 14 female engineering students in Montreal, Canada.